It is time we had a serious talk about our relationship.
There were some casual intimacies, reader and the like. Then you made a mistake with Buzz, you told all of my friends who I liked best. You were apologetic and did your best to fix it. I understood, we all make mistakes and I forgave you.
Then you suggested we move our relationship to a whole new level. With android you could be with me all the time. Moving in like that was a big move but I took it and it worked out.
Then you wanted to share my social circles and the rest of my life. I was excited because we had come so far together. It all seemed fine at first but lets face it, this isn’t working out.
You didn’t like some of my friends. It wasn’t a big deal but instead of just dealing you tried to remove them from my life. That was not ok.
I know you don’t think this is a big deal, that I can make new friends, but that is not your choice to make for me, that is between me and my friends.
You say you understand the importance of friends, you say that you know I want to see my friends. You also are not willing to give me a timeline or a plan to be able to see my friends. I am forced to conclude that you understand but you don’t care.
And I have learned this one the hard way. I can’t make someone care.
I know you are trying to say that having my friends over requires new furniture, but lets face it, we both know that all you need to do is stop slamming the door in their faces and telling them to leave. Trying to gaslight me on this issue this way is, frankly, an insult to my intelligence.
I still care about you and honestly living apart is going to be difficult. I am going to give you two weeks to figure this one out, change your behavior and apologize. If you don’t I am going to have to break up with you.
Because I know better then to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t care that they are hurting me.